Your attention is your life force.

It is almost the New Year and the energy is buzzing. If you feel like you are on the precipice of something amazing in your life- that is no coincidence. In numerology we are exiting a 9 year (2025) and entering 10 year (2026). Year 9 was the energy of closing loops. Ends of eras. Year 10 is a year of co-creation. The 1 is the symbol of new beginnings and the zero is the symbol of the infinite, aka Source, aka the Universe, aka God. The energy of this year, 2026, is making change that is supported by the divine. If you are thinking about making a change in any facet of your life- this is the year to do it, baby. To make a change all it takes is the decision.

What is one thing in your life that you want to change this year? If you aren’t changing it you are choosing it.

For me, my focus this year is entirely on growing Be Well w/ Bella. ✿ I started out this year in a toxic situationship. I also was half-assing my painting business because I knew deep down that it did not feel aligned. But I had no idea what was aligned. I knew I wanted to write, communicate, learn and teach spirituality and healing for a living but I had no idea how I could make that a reality. I continued trusting the process and listening closely to my intuition and in September I started my spiritual coaching practice and have never felt more excited about something in my whole life. The women I was able to work with this year have solidified for me that this is right where I am supposed to be.

I want to sharpen my coaching and work with even more women this year.

If you are ready for you life to keep getting better, lock in.

𖦹 𖦹 𖦹 𖦹 𖦹

Where you direct your focus is where you will direct your life. 

If you are interested in living your most joyous possible timeline, a series of decisions is required.

The decision is the first step of every single creation.

You must first decide whether or not you even have the desire to live your happiest life. People often say they want to be happy, but the truth is they are still in love with suffering. If you are ready to leave suffering behind for good the next step is to deeply understand, at the level of the body, that this is possible for you. There is deep fear and shame work required before most people are ready to accept that this is a reality for them. 

Once you truly believe this reality is possible for you, only then can you start taking the actions to make this decision manifest into reality.

In the book You are the Universe, Deepak Chopra illustrates the concept that reality only exists because we are here experiencing it. 

Reality can only expand in proportion to one's awareness of reality. 

You can tell how far your awareness of reality extends by your level of comfort with the statement “I am capable of anything.” Because the limits of your reality are just that- unlimited. If you aren't aware and accepting of this fact, this isn't the case for you. If you want it to be the case for you, it can be. 

Due to cultural and political circumstances most people have little interest in expanding their awareness. We have comfort zones we are trained to stay inside of. We have been culturally conditioned for stagnancy. It is our job, as conscious individuals dedicated to living life how it is meant to be lived, to decondition ourselves and rewire our brains for expansion. 

We are at a cultural juncture where the most conscious people have the most power, money and time. By conscious I mean having a working understanding of the power of the mind. 

Highly conscious individuals understand that power comes from focused attention.

When our attention is spread out amongst hundreds of thousands of focal points in a day, our power is diffused. Our attention is syphoned from us every day in millions of ways and our lives slip away from us slowly. We live life from distraction to distraction. Our aspirations experience death by a thousand cuts. Each time you turn your eyes in the direction of distraction, you are wasting a drop of pure potential energy.

The greatest power you possess is the power to harness your attention. Because where our attention goes our energy flows.

Imagine how much time and energy you would have if you stopped pouring into people, scenarios and situations that no longer serve you? Women are conditioned to say yes to everything and everyone, regardless of whether we will be empowered by that yes or not.

Your attention is your life force. Start focusing on only what truly matters and watch how quickly your life shifts.